PREVENTING UNHEALTHY RELATIONSHIPS
is easy, getting out of one is not
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PREVENTING UNHEALTHY RELATIONSHIPS IS EASY GETTING OUT OF ONE IS NOT
Many women think that they can get involved with an abuser and then end the abusive
relationship at any time. This can be further from the truth, since according
with researches 80 percent of abusers don’t let it go and they come back again
and again. The women may leave them, but the abusers won’t leave the women! Abusers
are like herpes, a lifelong disease. Many of them try to make the women
pregnant after they tried to leave them to force the women to have them in
their lives. Sex with an abuser can be the biggest mistake a woman can make to
ruin her and her future children lives.
Once a woman is involved with an abuser, she has to deal not just with him not letting it go, but with the ignorance that still exists in our society about this problem and the flaws in our legal system. One example is the fact that many women are forced to interact with their perpetrators for years due to custody and visitation court orders. As a result, it becomes a detrimental permanent problem that holds women and their children hostage for decades making them feel helpless and miserable. The only time that abusers lose visitations is after they directly endanger, neglect or physical abuse their own children. And unfortunately, many kids don’t say it because the abuser threatens to harm them or their mother if they tell anyone.
Women most pay attention to the red flags and walk away from the beginning. It is easier to prevent an abusive relationship than to try to get out of one. Women need to hear this information again and again, until they finally get it. Have no contact, no friendship, no interaction, and definitely no sex with any man that seems to be controlling or abusive, PAY ATTENTION TO THE SUBTLE SIGNS IN THE ONES THAT ACT NICE AT FIRST.
Once a woman is involved with an abuser, she has to deal not just with him not letting it go, but with the ignorance that still exists in our society about this problem and the flaws in our legal system. One example is the fact that many women are forced to interact with their perpetrators for years due to custody and visitation court orders. As a result, it becomes a detrimental permanent problem that holds women and their children hostage for decades making them feel helpless and miserable. The only time that abusers lose visitations is after they directly endanger, neglect or physical abuse their own children. And unfortunately, many kids don’t say it because the abuser threatens to harm them or their mother if they tell anyone.
Women most pay attention to the red flags and walk away from the beginning. It is easier to prevent an abusive relationship than to try to get out of one. Women need to hear this information again and again, until they finally get it. Have no contact, no friendship, no interaction, and definitely no sex with any man that seems to be controlling or abusive, PAY ATTENTION TO THE SUBTLE SIGNS IN THE ONES THAT ACT NICE AT FIRST.